What’s the Difference between Self Confidence and Self-Worth and Why do you need to know?

Success is often associated with external factors such as focus, clarity, and taking massive action. It's easy to overlook the internal aspect that truly determines our fulfilment: self-worth. This morning I listened to an inspiring conversation between Ed Mylett and Jamie Kern Lima on "The Ed Mylett Show" as they shed light on the profound difference between self-confidence and self-worth.

Self-worth has a far greater impact on our lives than we imagine and in listening to the podcast I believe you will gain a deeper understanding of how this intrinsic value will shape your journey towards success and fulfilment.

The Foundation of Self-Worth:

While self-confidence may vary and fluctuate, self-worth lies deep within us. We often fall into the trap of believing that external achievements or possessions will grant us the feeling of being worthy. However, Jamie Kern Lima challenges this notion by highlighting that true fulfilment can only be attained when we recognise our inherent self-worth, independent of any external validation.

The Struggle with Self-Worth:

In our pursuit of self-worth, we frequently face obstacles and struggle with defining our own values. The fear of rejection becomes a significant barrier, stifling our dreams and aspirations. When we fail at something, it is common for negative thoughts to flood our minds, reinforcing the belief that we are not enough. We long to be acknowledged, to feel loved, seen, and heard, and to know that we matter.

Transforming Rejection:

To embark on a journey towards self-worth, Jamie encourages us to redefine our relationship with rejection. Rather than attaching negative meanings to rejection, we can choose empowering interpretations. By altering our perspective, we can embrace rejection as an opportunity for growth, a redirection towards our true path. One of Jamie's mantras, "Rejection is God's protection," reminds her that those who reject us are not meant to accompany us on our destined path.

The Role of Service:

Connecting with our self-worth is intrinsically tied to our ability to serve others. By offering kindness and making meaningful connections, we enhance our sense of worthiness. Simple acts such as making eye contact, smiling at a neighbour, or engaging in a genuine conversation with a stranger at a coffee shop can have a profound impact. Not only do we brighten someone else's day, but we also experience an uplifting sense of fulfilment and recognize our own worth in the process.

The Power of Recognition:

In a world increasingly driven by social media, genuine connections and meaningful recognition have become scarce commodities. However, it is through these authentic interactions that we truly become connected with our self-worth. By noticing others and being noticed in return, we bridge the gap of disconnection, reminding ourselves and others of our intrinsic value.

I’ve been particularly moved by this podcast. The conversation between Ed Mylett and Jamie Kern Lima unveils the transformative power of self-worth. In a society fixated on external achievements, it is essential to recognise that self-worth is the foundation upon which true fulfilment is built.

By embracing our authenticity, redefining rejection, and serving others with kindness, we can embark on a journey towards a profound sense of self-worth. As we integrate these practices into our daily lives, we not only uplift ourselves but also contribute to a world where genuine connections and recognition prevail.

Let us remember that we are worthy, and through our worthiness, we can truly make a difference in the lives of others and ourselves.  To listen to the full podcast and delve deeper into this powerful discussion, click here.